About The Book

“Unapologetically Selfish: The Art of Choosing Yourself” is Ben Enyinnaya’s heartfelt exploration of personal growth and self-discovery. In this transformative book, Ben shares his own journey of awakening, revealing how he learned to prioritize his needs while still caring for others. He addresses the societal pressures that often push us to neglect ourselves in favor of meeting others’ expectations.

Through relatable stories and practical advice, Ben guides readers in recognizing the signs of burnout and emotional exhaustion. He emphasizes the importance of setting healthy boundaries and cultivating self-compassion. This book is not just about saying “no”, it’s about understanding that true fulfillment comes from honoring your own desires and needs.

Ben offers insights into the cultural beliefs that make us feel guilty for prioritizing ourselves. He encourages readers to challenge these beliefs and embrace the idea that self-care is essential, not selfish. Each chapter is filled with lessons that invite reflection and inspire change, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking a more balanced and joyful life.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by responsibilities or simply looking to reclaim your happiness, this book provides the tools and encouragement you need. This book reminds you that choosing yourself is the first step toward living a life filled with purpose and authenticity.